@xaroth_@B3laze The main one is I only dealt with certain types of women, and ignored the objectively better women, so I ended up wasting almost 5 years on weird bitches. But also career, personal growth and other stuff.
My one boring tip to anyone in their 20s is to resist the temptation to rot in your room every time you get a free moment. Dismiss any neuroses you have about going outside and "being perceived".
One thing I'm trying to eliminate is using logic/psychology when explaining female behavior to a lady over something she did. Silence or a shrug of the shoulder seems like the more ideal way.
I think one of the most heartfelt experiences in life is discovering that someone genuinely enjoys your presence. Not what you provide, Not your accomplishments. Just you, your thoughts, your energy, your existence.
@XivTroy This is exactly why the debate about lunch with Jay-Z or $1M is always silly. His advice, however golden it may be, is functionally useless if there are zero resources to actualize it.
Karura is a good place to meet babes. You don't even have to go with one. Just show up, most preferably Friday, and you won't miss to see a young lady walking alone.
I'm always approaching women but everything starts to fall apart within a short period when the topic of commitment starts creeping in because I run away or start to get cold feet. And the cycle continues.
The secret to not being awkward is to never force conversation. Don’t try to come up with interesting things to say, don’t talk to people for the sake of talking, don’t voice opinions or ask questions to sound smart. Instead, notice your own curiosity and follow it. If you don’t have any, radiate comfort in your silence.