- he knew my deadname maybe for like 4 months 🙂↕️ he never actually believed I was trans and will probably never admit it 🙂↕️
Anyways my parents still aren't supportive and have been neglecting me since I came out 8, almost 9 years ago how fun
I remember when I was 12, I was friends with a specific guy that was 16, he was trans and at the time I didn't know being trans was an actual thing- especially with my parents insisting I was just a tomboy my whole life- and he made me realize, oh shit, that's what I am, so-
- same guy through all these years groomed me non sexually, and I only managed to cut him off in September-ish of last year
There was a time he said my deadname unprompted in a vc full of people and said it wasn't on purpose. It had been 4 years since I had came out. -
It isn't intentional, we didn't choose to be this way, if anything it's how we were taught to be more than anything,,,
That's in a collective standpoint, if I were to talk about me specifically, It'd stay trans guy the whole line, mostly out of simplicity
Anyways I tell people we're a trans guy IRL out of simplicity, Agender online but in reality it's neither because we were never treated like a human to begin with so we just. Don't even see our gender as something a human can comprehend or another person would understand