Sylvia Duruson

Remote Professional | 5+ years in Content, Operations and Customer Support

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You know you’re qualified. Your experience proves it. But your application doesn’t show it the way hiring managers need to see it. Here’s what changes that. Save this for your next application.

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Writing can be such a daring process. The ability to put words to your thoughts and feelings and dare to share it with the rest of the world.
It's so bold! Don't you think so?

These were my thoughts as I published another story on my blog. Care to read?

https://t.co/xehWYuOl19

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@IAmWahuKariuki I can totally relate to the feeling. I did the same for myself in March. I still haven't gotten over it.
Congratulations Sis!

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@kat_boogaard 😆😆 This!!
Been there as well

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Nothing hits like a Korean dramatic scene😂😂

Especially those one where there’s a damsel in distress.

Because tell me why these men are bouncing like this🤣

#guardian #koreanseries

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@akreana_ @Emmms__ I still do it🥹

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@_GloryIbanga_ Valentine gift no pass this one🥹
Congratulations Best girl!💃

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@kat_boogaard It's truly baffling.
I'm currently dealing with exactly this.

Had a client reach out that I got the job. Reached back out to follow up and it's just been radio silence.

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@Emmms__ Good for you!😂

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@daisy_ogeh Make I join for the Abeg😩

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@theblack_tomi My best is the Mark of the Lion series.
A voice in the wind
An echo in the dark
And the third one.

My all-time favourite is this series.

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@theblack_tomi I've read alll and more not on this list😅

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@ifejayeola @BabyWhale___ Well said!

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@itsmamalee @BabyWhale___ Naa. We can't outgrow this one, oh. "My Pastor said," is usually my opening line 😉

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There is a mistake Nigerian men make in love and relationship. You want to do everything, put in all the work, so all the spending and just allow your woman cruise through - providing only shared intimacy. The problem with that is, you think such love compels loyalty and commitment. But you're wrong.

The heart is not gender specific. It is the same. To tell where a person's heart is, look at where they channel their resources and effort. Even Jesus said, where your treasure is, that is where your heart is.

People are more likely to fight for a relationship where they are invested in, than one where the man does everything. If you do everything, there is really nothing tying her to the relationship unless she is just there for your money. In situations where she loves someone else, she will take money from you and invest in the relationship with whom she loves.

When someone loves you, they see their resources as family resource not personal. They are happy to give to you and looking forward to doing so. They are happy to talk to you and be in your presence and look forward to doing so. Their body, they money, their time, their heart prioritizes you and they are happy to invest it in the relationship.

You can't negotiate genuine desire by throwing money at women. When someone loves you, you'll know. You won't second guess it. Giving her the world and getting shoe and cake on your birthday 'because you deserve' it, is not love. Love gives at first instance not as reciprocity for endless stream of love. You'll keep doing the most for one day of gift. Love is not earned, love is given. Someone that loves you gives you because you are their man and they love you and it makes them happy to do so.

When someone is invested in making the relationship work, putting you in every plan, speaking all the love languages to you - by giving not expecting, that is love. People who day they can't do wife duties (whatever that means) for someone theybare dating does not love them. There is no fuss in giving your best to the person you're committed to. "I will not do this, I will not do that" is common sense expression of a lack of love. Nigerian men must have atrophied brain not to know this.

One thing I've realized is that many women do not love the men they are dating snd many men are okay with not being loved. By their actions, you can tell. That is why you keep hearing "if he deserves it" and this is in respect of someone they are in fact dating. Shameless! It is worse that the men are okay with it.

In the end, we accept the love we think we deserve.

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@SpiricocoNg Why not?😌

I'll even add a quote from the service

"The Man is the Wealth"

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@SpiricocoNg If you're in Uyo, we would love to have you.

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@SpiricocoNg There's a movement called the Kingdom Movement

#PstNdukweNdukwe

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@ISAAC_UBU @SpiricocoNg Papa Oyedepo😍😍