Short story.
A person once argued with Ibrahim ibn Adham.
He said: There is no such thing as "barakah", or blessing.
Ibrahim ibn Adham responded to him, saying: Do you know dogs and sheep?
The man said: Yes
Ibn Adham responded:
Which of these animals has larger litterss
@LadyGrasha It makes sense for me as Man who has a dated a few women and is dating one now.
The man is always at fault even when he isn't at fault natural rule of being with a loving and caring woman .