leaving someone on read when you're in the middle of a conversation with them is just rude. if you're too busy to answer, I'd rather just get left on delivered
"miss you, we need to hang out & catch-up soon" but then proceed to make plans with other friends in our friend group but don't bother to extend an invitation to me
I'm so over always being such a low priority until they're the ones that need somebody. but when it's me they might as well just say "fuck you, I don't actually care"
love feeling like a friendship is one-sided unless they need something from me. like when I need support or advice, they can't seem to be bothered at all or it just feels like I'm inconveniencing them...but then the moment the tables turn, I'm there for them every time
when we have plans but you have no problem keeping plans with other people...maybe it's just me getting into my own head but I'm tired of feeling shitty bc people can't communicate
Like sorry that I'm such a high maintenance friend that I need validation that you don't actually secretly hate me & I also need communication bc I've had people call themselves my "friend" in the past only to ghost me until they wanted something. I'm tired of being flaked on