@BetsNBitcoin also maybe this could be a good opportunity to learn about personal finance! like 10-20% goes into a roth IRA or a CD account, teach her how to budget based on her wants/needs so she starts practicing now, etc! :))
@Flowers4Apes @Birdeckler @notcapnamerica like can we understand that some people don’t have room to budget and 250 is not enough for 4 people for that long…
@Flowers4Apes @Birdeckler @notcapnamerica not only that, but this is the money she has for the next 10 days for her, her husband, and her kids and everyone is just like “welp you should be putting some of that away obviously you have no idea how to budget”
which is why they’re clear about what they’re looking for from the get-go.
and guess what? sometime later, they might change their mind and want a long-term relationship. and they might not. either is perfectly normal, like why are we all so concerned about what orher people do.
why do men have to get into serious relationships if they don’t want to? it’s their life and they’re just stating their intentions so that they don’t lead someone on.
would you call a woman “sad” if she didn’t want to get into a relationship in her late twenties?
hearing a lot from friends that guys are declaring earlier and earlier that theyre "not looking for anything serious" and think it's honorable to communicate this. it's not though. you're a man in your late twenties and u cant commit to a relationship...thats actually kind of sad
and wanting everyone to live the same life and be the same person, but i guess the same attitude can be found in nature, too.
other people have different wants and needs and sometimes it doesn’t include a long-term partner. maybe they still have sexual needs…
@natii_natiita say it for the people in the back, STOP GIVING THESE HORRIBLE MEN ANY OF YOUR TIME AND EFFORT!! HOPEFULLY IF THEY’RE ALONE FOREVER THEY’LL EITHER FIGURE IT OUT OR WILL NOT PROCREATE! :)
Something I’ve been unpacking lately is how disorienting it is to be someone’s limerent object. I see it as similar to the golden child dynamic: you are showered with praise, attention, care and adoration - but only for the person you are not.
@MK00R0@oasisraindrops@PopCrave ive never heard someone refer to innocent, starving, and dehydrated children and innocents as “islamic fascists”
you know she isn’t supporting hamas right?
@a30aew@TiDuraes@GreenblattJD@united i don’t understand you, the executive branch is one of the three branches of American government. he worked for the government.
Palestinian people are human beings that deserve to live in peace.
Israeli people are human beings that deserve to live in peace.
Peace cannot happen if Israel is bombing and killing innocent Palestinians.
Peace cannot happen if Hamas is killing innocent Israelis.
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