If you’re struggling to find a partner, the problem is you.
Improve your appearance. Go to the gym. Learn to cook. Be more useful. Try harder in bed.
As for women, I have no advice.
You’re already perfect.
I really don’t give a fuck what men think of me. Especially men that aren’t taking care of me in any capacity. My father and my man are the only two men who’s opinions i care about (because they take care of me) and sometimes i don’t give a fuck about theirs either 😂