'One of the main arguments against using dentals dams is that they’re awkward to use and might ruin the mood. But they’re really just another kind of barrier method, the same as condoms.'
@GeorgieWolf on dental dams! 💜
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💡Some thoughts on consent.
I recently spent an evening with someone who, while sweet, barely interacted with me.
When I asked how they felt about ✨progressing✨they couldn’t give me a straight answer, and I found myself thinking about the interplay between nerves and consent.
I pay my therapist for her undivided attention to talk about things that matter to me. We have an asymmetrical relationship. I pay her for this asymmetry without dehumanizing her. I don’t know what is so special about sex that makes this impossible to imagine when we talk about sex work.
Question thread!!
Companions: what can an admirer do that makes you want to see them again? Or what do those you see again and again do, that you value?
Admirers: same questions but from you all but from your vantage point: What makes you see a provider repeatedly?
When I consider what “quality” means in SW, enthusiasm springs to mind. Enthusiasm stems from mutual respect, adherence to boundaries, & discussing your desires. If you’re concerned that service quality doesn’t improve over time and rates - you’re probably missing one of these.
I'm so honoured to be featured in The Good Client Guide, and to be consulted on something that's close to my heart - building meaningful connections that go beyond the bedroom ❤️
Welcome to our new interview series, A Tryst About Town! Today we chat to @missembeauchamp @marine__seville and @Kira_Nielsen_ in their hometown to hear what makes it so special. ✨✨
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Come & explore your submissive femme in a safe, non judgemental space.
We do not engage in any
language or attitudes which treat feminisation as a
*lessening* of self & agency.
25.11, 2-5pm
HOSTESSES:
Mistress Lillith
@daniellerubber@yes_miss_alani
https://t.co/KA8WjXjv2o
This is actually the kind of rational discourse we need about STIs. Sex inherently includes some risk, just as driving a car does, but most of us still manage to get in our cars and drive to work. We do what we can to mitigate risk: we put our seat belts on and we take Valtrax.
Guess what, this is happening! My new podcast, When We’re Not Hustling: Sex Working Talking About Everything But is in the early stages of production and will launch soon!! 🎙️
Former clients:
Please don't feel self-conscious about reaching out to me, even if we haven't seen each other in a very long time. I completely understand that circumstances change, and if we enjoyed our time together, I'm more than happy to pick up where we left off. 🥰
If someone told me before I started that I was going to have to be doing BOOKKEEPING and ACCOUNTING and MATHS and TAX PLANNING, I might’ve reconsidered.
Can’t I just be a hot girl who shows up and we do fun things? No? 😫