You just have to wake up & take responsibility for ur life.
Some men realize it at 18, some at 30 & some never did.
Nobody can do the work for you.
My man told me something the other day that lowkey rearranged my brain a little.
He said, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your father, I’m your partner. You’re grown, you can make whatever choices you want. Just know every choice comes with consequences. If you pick something that hurts what we built, that decision belongs to you.”
Then he goes, “I’m always gonna tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s how real communication works. But if I show you where the line is and you keep stepping over it, then you’re not protecting us… you’re just choosing yourself.”
And yeah… that’s when it clicked for me. Accountability in a relationship isn’t yelling, rules, or control. It’s someone giving you freedom and trusting you to care enough not to misuse it.
Get you a woman who really understands life for real. Because a lot of these females be lil girls in grown-woman positions. A real woman knows what priorities look like rent, bills, responsibility… no excuses, no shortcuts. She understands life ain’t always easy, but she see the vision and knows how to move toward the goal. Having someone who can THINK, PLAN, and EXECUTE with you, that’s rare. Not just cute pics and a good front for Facebook I’m talking about real drive, real mindset, real hustle. It’s hard finding a woman like that nowadays, but if you do...Keep her close. Cause there’s a whole lot of pretty bums out here. 💯
@fenqk2@_Brandon999 He's using a metaphor to explain how the drugs make him feel larger than life and untouchable when in reality he is not God and he knows he is not comparable. It touches on why he couldn't quit the drugs. It wasn't offensive at all
@psnbasketball From watching him do quizzes and rebuilds in 2k16 to now with NBC is crazy! Proud of you bro your come up has been fun to watch‼️🙏 @KOT4Q