I fell in love with this realization:
The people meant for you will not punish you for being human. They will not require perfect timing, perfect words, or a flawless version of your personality. They will know how to hold a pause without turning it into a threat.
They will know that being real matters more than being polished.
I don’t let nobody play with my character because I know exactly how I move. I’ve been the person checking on everybody else, looking out when I didn’t have to, and showing up for people without keeping score. That’s why I don’t waste time trying to convince anybody of who I am. The people that know me know my intentions were always genuine. If somebody chooses to forget everything I did for them or switch the story to make themselves feel better, that’s on them. I know what type of heart I got, and that’s something nobody can take from me.
Friendly reminder: love is not a performance review. You can literally do absolutely nothing, just exist, and still deserve love. Unlearn the habit of working overtime for conditional affection.
This is a sign to leave our super-understanding era because sometimes people just take advantage of the kindness that we are giving. I'm so done with being okay with what they are doing and feeling sorry for myself afterward.
I miss how the taste of Chicago was back in the day. It was a huge ass event that went on for damn near 2 weeks, mfers STEPPED…
Those were the days man 😂
i think stressing over a man is pointless. the choices they make are completely out of your control & their behavior has nothing to do with you. all you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn't care for you properly out.
I’m really the person no one ever had to worry about lol. not needy, not problematic, not irresponsible. I’m the go to, the shoulder, the motivator, the light ✨ it’s heavy but it’s just how I am