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[꧁༒☬ 𝔾𝕒𝕓𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕝 ☬༒꧂ @Gabbrielxzn]

the neurodivergent obsession with trying to figure out why someone did what they did. replaying it. analyzing it. asking your friends. asking your therapist. asking your friends again. because your brain literally cannot accept that some people are just cruel for no reason.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”

[B-R-K @b_r_khan_]

I keep on revisiting this. You might not realize the depth of what he said. In urdu poetry, there is a concept where poets view God as a lonely being, so lonely that He created free willed humans for company. Loneliness is a Godly trait & whoever enters its realm meets God there

[𓂀 NEBET EBONI ASET𓇼 𓇼 𓇼 𓇼 @NebetEboni]

I’m convinced Scorpios need a Morticia and Gomez type of relationship otherwise it ain’t the love that the Scorpio needs. Especially Venus Moon and Rising placements

[ꪖꪀꪊ ꪮꪶꪊ᭙ꪖ @OluwaSoLove]

Women who actually believe they are beautiful do not give people access to them contrary to popular belief.

The whole ‘I’m hot so I got to act like it’ mentality is low self esteem, which is what a lot of people who can’t believe they are attractive do.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

Some people have zero desire to be seen. They just want a blessed and quiet life.

[👽 @awwheyuu]

relationships are actually fun when you’re not dating a lying whore

[⚭ @lekimgym]

Training my nervous system to choose an unfamiliar heaven instead of a familiar hell

[𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖙𝖊𝖉 @6looted]

whatever you choose to do when we’re not on good terms is what you’ve been wanting to do all along

[bianca @biancalovesfilm]

unfortunately i do believe that every time i delay watching a film it’s because it’s going to find me at the perfect time

[alexa @vampirrria]

7 planets in Aries next week

[𝓙 @1997SMOKE]

losing two founding fathers omg this city gonna collapse

[Lisa @lisathebeauty1]

God knows a loveless marriage is not for me. I desire intimacy, I love being wanted, I will marry for everything I long for.

[` @lisaawrites]

An Arabic proverb says; “Keep your house clean like you're expecting guests.Keep your heart clean like you're expecting death.” This hits deep, a reminder we often forget.

[bud wiser @w0rdgenerator]

This news would’ve genuinely killed me 4 years ago

[maneesha @ManeeshaSem]

you lose your libido, you don’t like their natural scent, you can’t fall asleep easily next to them, you experience digestive issues because of the tension/ anxiety you hold in your gut, you feel drained after interacting, you feel relieved when they leave, you get skin issues

[miia @miiagarro]

healed me is meaner btw

[Mak @mak_aura]

life when you accept there’s nothing you can do and move on

[Veronica, Collagen Scientist 🇵🇱 @celestialbe1ng]

People are getting mad at Zayn for saying he was never in love with Gigi (the mother of his child) and sure, that’s wild.

But they’re missing the real lesson here.

He said: “If I had been in love, I would’ve been a better version of myself.”

That’s the entire point, imo.

When a man truly loves you, he doesn’t stagnate. He will upgrade, regulate, become disciplined, idk do whatever is required to fix what’s broken without you having to beg/ask/try.

In my opinion (and Zayn’s words confirm this) love makes a man aspire. It sharpens him, makes him want to build, protect, provide, evolve because he wants to be worthy of the life you’re building together.

You cannot “fix” a man. You shouldn’t. Guy who loves you will fix himself. It’s what they do.

And if he isn’t becoming better with you, he simply isn’t in love.

Lesson in there ✌🏻

[Stacy Andy @StacyAndy9]

Death to all pedophiles, rapists and their enablers.