🌿 I’m offering sliding scale IFS-informed sessions to support my El Camino pilgrimage. 🙏 Your booking helps me deepen my practice and bring these valuable tools back to the adult industry & other communities where they can make a positive impact. 💫
🗓️ Booking link: https://t.co/KOd9Azz5i8
💵 Pay what you can—every bit helps!
I was invited to the next step… I’m taking the time to be with all my parts before making a decision.
•The Excited Part – “Wow, walking the El Camino with Dick Schwartz himself! This could be life-changing.”
•The Financially Concerned Part – “That’s a LOT of money. Is this a wise investment?”
•The Skeptical Part – “Will this actually be the breakthrough I need, or am I hoping for something I could get another way?”
•The FOMO Part – “I might never get another chance like this!”
•The Grounded or Practical Part – “How does this fit into my overall life and business right now?”
Coming out.
After 20 years in the adult industry, it’s time to share my story fully. It takes #courage to step into the light in a world full of stigma, but here I am—unapologetically myself.
#SWAuthenticRelating is my offering: a space for deep presence, connection, and transformation. No more hiding. This is me. This is my work.
Read my full bio here: https://t.co/qN3YpiCNV0
Bell Tower Clock, Ring the Hours
Bell tower clock, ring the hours,
Bell tower clock, ring the hours,
So that all the women may awaken,
So that all the women may awaken.
Because if all the women awaken,
Because if all the women awaken,
They will begin reclaiming their great powers,
They will begin reclaiming their great powers.
Bell tower clock, ring quickly,
Bell tower clock, ring quickly,
So that the priestesses may awaken,
So that the priestesses may awaken:
The one who invokes the sky, the one who invokes the water,
The one who invokes the fire, the one who invokes the air,
The one who brings offerings to her Mother Earth,
The one who brings offerings to her Mother Earth.
Because their Mother needs her daughters,
Because their Mother needs her daughters,
To sing and dance full of joy,
To sing and dance full of joy,
Always invoking the four elements.
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Healthy shame can preserve group cohesion and relational harmony.
It inhibits socially harmful behavior from individuals.
Healthy shamelessness can preserve integrity, authenticity and freedom.
It stands up to harmful or exclusionary social norms.
That said, even healthy shame and shamelessness can take a toll over time.
Chronic shame may lead to withdrawal, or people-pleasing—sacrificing the self for acceptance.
Chronic shamelessness may lead to disregard and mild narcissism—sacrificing others for self-expression.
(Thanks @SWAuthRel for extracting this highlight from my recent newsletter 🙏
I sometimes find it hard to know which parts will be most interesting to other people.)
#AuthenticRelating is for anyone seeking connection, self-discovery, or a space to practice being seen & heard. It’s a transformative way to explore what it means to truly relate.
For sex workers, #AuthenticRelating can be empowering. It offers a chance to drop roles & masks often required in our industry and engage in authentic, unscripted interactions with others who share an understanding of our challenges & strengths.
In #AuthenticRelating, participants focus on their feelings, sensations, & thoughts as they arise, while exploring how they impact and are impacted by others. It’s a space to build emotional intelligence, vulnerability, & relational skills.
#AuthenticRelating is a dynamic practice that fosters real-time connection & self-awareness through honest, present-moment communication. It’s not about “right” answers—it’s about tuning into your experience & sharing what’s true for you in the moment.
If you’re curious about how AR could bring more depth, connection, and presence to your life, join us. It’s a practice of authenticity, vulnerability, and shared discovery.
By focusing on present-moment awareness, AR creates opportunities to feel seen, understood, and deeply connected. It’s not about what’s wrong—it’s about celebrating what is.
AR fosters connection through equality, curiosity, and shared humanity. It’s about exploring how we relate, not solving problems or assigning roles. It’s a practice that’s as dynamic and alive as the people in the room.
#AuthenticRelating isn’t therapy—it’s something entirely different. It’s about celebrating humanity, staying present, and connecting deeply with others. Both practices are valuable, but AR offers a unique way to experience being human.
#AuthenticRelating has transformed my life, and I’m honored to share it with others. Through SW Community Circles, I hope to create a welcoming space for authentic connection and personal growth.
Why do I offer Authentic Relating sessions? Because it brings people together in a way that feels natural, human, and transformative. It’s a practice of exploring what it means to be real with ourselves and others.
#AuthenticRelating celebrates being over doing and connecting over solving. It’s not about fixing anyone but about discovering the beauty of connection and presence.
When I bring my inquiry into relationship, I’m usually not seeking advice. I also don’t want questions that prompt explanations. I desire curiosity that invites exploration & guides me deeper into my own experience, helping me uncover insights from within. It’s a rare and refined skill to hold space for someone’s inquiry in a way that draws out their own epiphanies. Few possess this art.