You only fight when the fight is fair.
If it ain’t fair - you fuck off from there. Sometimes- it’s just about survival.
People ask - why do people tolerate toxicity in residency. They can complain, resign etc etc.
Actually they can’t .
It’s an extraordinarily unfair fight.
When you join residency - in many if not all states - you can’t resign without paying a huge bond (upto 1 crore)!
You’re also banned from counseling for 3 years.
You can’t complain - whom will you? - to HOD?
You think that same HOD doesn’t know about what’s happening in the department.
The faculty will ensure you fail in MD exit if you talk/rebel.
Or will not sign your thesis.
Half the suicides - the trigger is almost always pressure over a random thesis(which should be banned imo in India)
It’s worse in surgical branches- they won’t give you a chances/any cutting.
It’s an unfair fight.
And people - just - they just survive.
It’s 1 year. Maximum 2. They keep the head down - tolerate the humiliation and just leave after taking the damn degree.
Really admire those who goes through all the struggle and finally are able to marry the love of their lives.
It requires lots of effort, patience, understanding and also work between two people for the same.