I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.
I’m not gonna lie, every time someone tells me they’re proud of me, I end up tearing up a bit. No one really sees how hard I push myself just to do well at everything, so that kind of compliment hits me the deepest.
Yall need to start being mean to people that are mean to YOU. Stop that bigger person shit.. Release your inner bitches or whatever Natasha Bedingfield said!
cutting people off feels different now. it’s not anger, it’s grief. like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
When I leave people alone, I genuinely think I’m giving them what they want. It’s no way you did what you did & expected me to believe you still wanted me around.
ive been so blessed fr, I try not to let my bad moments trick me into thinking I have a bad life! life isn't tied with a bow but it's still a gift and for that i'm thankful! so thank you Lord for nothing in particular but for everything in general!💜
she's right af... ain't no pain like growing, healing and evolving and the person you want by your side not caring enough to do their part for the relationship