Safecity Croatia

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@milahcampana @TheSafecityApp @dunyabonacci Thank you for inviting us!!

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Thank you for curating this discussion Dunja Bonacci (@dunyabonacci) & Ivana Šalinović (@SafecityC).

Here's a recap of the tweetchat - https://t.co/692cdBL7Uk

Please keep the conversation going.

#IamMine

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[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@nina_agtey @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @90Reeti @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 Most of the red flags at the beginning are socially believed to be signs of love, and jealousy but when they escalate, the victims stop sharing what is happening.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@nina_agtey @TheSafecityApp @jyotigoyal08 @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @genderalliance2 @90Reeti Lawyers are proficient in manipulation.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@genderalliance2 @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @90Reeti @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 @nina_agtey Or instructing the victim how to speak and what to say.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@milahcampana @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @90Reeti @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 @nina_agtey Lies about not being able to leave the house, starts to dress differently.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@dunyabonacci @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @90Reeti @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 @nina_agtey That is the time police/government/community should help her the most.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@dunyabonacci @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @90Reeti @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 @nina_agtey Has to report where/with whom she is all the time. Sending pictures as proof of her location.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@milahcampana @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @90Reeti @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 @nina_agtey Or when the victim looks for non-verbal signs in their partners body language and acts accordingly.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@elsamariedsilva @TheSafecityApp @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @90Reeti @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 @nina_agtey Lovebombing is often confused with genuine love.#Iammine

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @90Reeti @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 @nina_agtey More support from the police/government when women are seeking help. Usually, the answer is that tey can not do anything.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@nina_agtey @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @90Reeti @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 Unfortunately, so many women have lost their lives this year in Croatia.

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5. What are the signs that can be recognised to prevent femicide in intimate partner relationships, where coercive control is present?

- You can tweet your answers with the question number (e.g. A1, A2, A3)

- Use the hashtag #IamMine

#Safecity

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@nina_agtey @TheSafecityApp @90Reeti @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @jyotigoyal08 @genderalliance2 Education from an early age is crucial, so girls are able to recognize it.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@genderalliance2 @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @90Reeti @nina_agtey @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 It is the notion: if you are not mine, you do not deserve to live. You are my possesion.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@90Reeti @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @RuchiAngrish @EktaVVerma @BembalaS @RinkiSharma @genderalliance2 @nina_agtey Years and years od therapy, sometimes are not enough to be able to become yourself again

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @90Reeti @nina_agtey @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @RinkiSharma @nuts2406 Unfortunately, so many women who have been victims of coercive control, the moment they decide to leave the abuser, they are killed.

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4. What is the connection between coercive control and femicide?

- You can tweet your answers with the question number (e.g. A1, A2, A3)

- Use the hashtag #IamMine

#Safecity #RedDotFoundation

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@90Reeti @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @nina_agtey @jyotigoyal08 @genderalliance2 Documentation of evidence is so important.

[Safecity Croatia @SafecityC]

@nina_agtey @TheSafecityApp @elsamariedsilva @supreetksingh @dunyabonacci @EktaVVerma @RuchiAngrish @jyotigoyal08 @genderalliance2 @90Reeti Agreed. So much has been done in such a small amount of time, we still have a lot to do, but we are impatient.