To live a life that can be looked back out with the knowledge that some of our decisions were perhaps wrong in their effects, but right in the intention of not selling ourselves short.
Kemarin baca soal lansia (65th) yang bunuh diri karena keterbatasan ekonomi. Jadilah diskusi bareng suami “kalo kondisinya kaya gini, dia masuk surga/neraka? Terus dimana pertolongan Allah sampe umatnya menyerah dalam ujiannya?” Suami jawab “masuk neraka bareng pemerintah”
I think people care too much about being perceived as good people. You're a human being; you have negative feelings and you do negative things, so the current obsession with overmoralizing to the point that we deny our humanity is frankly annoying.
@ahtnamas@hstweet23 lowkey yeaa, oxytocin n general parasympathetic activation would at least help keep her bp way steadier instead of sending her into fight or flight like that 💔
Over time, a false narrative always collapses under the weight of a person's consistent character. You don't have to fight the lie, You just have to outlive it by staying in your light.