Avoid Comparing Yourself With Others
The best way to feel like you're not good enough is to keep comparing yourself with others.
You are going to get nothing accomplished by doing that.
Instead:
- Learn to play your own game
- Set your goals & work hard towards them
You aren't depressed.
Your reality is depressing.
You wake up:
- Go to a job you don't love
- Hang out with people you don't like
- Look in the mirror and see yourself out of shape
Depression is a feeling deep inside your heart telling you, you need to change things.
If you are not ready to put in the work to change your life, even God can't help you.
Changing your life is your responsibility, not someone else's.
Stop blaming:
- God
- Your family
- Your partner
- Your situation
Own up to your mistakes.
6 THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND:
1. Go after dreams, not people.
2. Love yourself & the rest will follow.
3. Never lose your sense of wonder.
4. You are capable of more than you know.
5. No regrets in life. Just lessons learned.
6. Life goes by in a blink of an eye. So live life.
What people flex with:
- Cars
- Jewelry
- Clothes
- Gadgets
What they should flex with:
- Retiring their parents
- Raising a loving family
- Living a healthy lifestyle
- Creating generational wealth
The former is just toys, the latter is called Legacy.
Growth isn't loud. It doesn't flex. It doesn't seek validation. It's quiet, humble, and reassuring. Growth is looking yourself in the mirror, knowing you gave it all you got and congratulating yourself on another beautiful and blessed day.
You will never fail physically first.
You will always fail mentally.
It's your job to push past your limits.
Every day.
Every workout.
Every stressful situation.
Push through. Break through.
Life is a mental game. Embrace it.
We are all imperfect creatures. No one is perfect neither can anyone be. Stay true to yourself and stay authentic in the world that’s filled with copy cats.
If you feel it in your stomach, it's your intuition.
If you feel it in in your chest, it's your fear.
Pay attention to your body. It is your guidance system.
Beauty also looks like:
• lightheartedness
• good moral values
• emotional intelligence
• a kind and grateful heart
• authenticity and honesty
• a desire to do and be better
• commitment and consistency