stop exhausting yourself by pouring oceans into cups that only give you drops. meet people where they meet you, love them how they love you, and include them only as deeply as they include you. reciprocity is not bitterness, it’s balance, and it protects your peace.
But yall like that shit. Soon as yall meet someone who isnt tripping on you, you get bored & go look for a toxic thrill. Idk why niggas pretend like toxicity & drama isn’t what they prefer for their ego
'HE JUST SEEMED SO DISORIENTED': Police are searching for a masked suspect whom investigators say has been terrorizing people in Center City Philadelphia. One woman recalls kicking the man in the chest during the encounter. https://t.co/g87mhg4Ujb https://t.co/mrObr02JEU
and then, something changes. you start trusting the version of yourself that notices when something doesn’t feel right. you stop teaching yourself to better tolerate what keeps hurting you, and start learning how to change your situation.
the longer I live, the more I believe that most people are just doing their best with wounds you can't see and tools they were never given. behind every behavior that frustrates me is a story I don't have access to.
An emotionally avoidant person with no accountability, no real empathy, and a masters degree in victimhood. They have a way of behaving like they’re deep, like they feel everything but look closer, you realise you’re the only one doing the emotional labour.
You can tell someone’s either unhealed or there’s already another person in the pic by the way they react to you loving them. And the guilt of knowing they're doing things without your knowledge. Most ppl don't know how to sit in that guilt in a healthy way. So they become mean.
Dr Jason Arday has been found dead days after resigning from Cambridge University amid plagiarism allegations brought by DEI critic Nathan Coftas.
His family condemned a ‘campaign of misinformation’, in which UK media published 188 articles about him in just nine days.