Ultideyforyou🤓💯🗨

Proudly AGBAFIAN till I D.I.E💀☠
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MENTOR/GODFATHER ÀGBÀ @jon_d_doe_

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

One of the ways that you show love to your wife is by paying her back the debt which you owe her.

When it comes to finances in the home, your wife is naturally not supposed to participate in it.

But we know the economy is tough and women also work and earn.

You as a man and her husband should not let that stop you from doing what you're naturally supposed to do.

If you can't pay her all of it, pay in parts.

Always have at the back of your mind that you're more likely to die before your wife.

And when you're gone, your wife will take over, raise your children, and handle the finances. Even if you die without any tangible estate or inheritance.

She will not follow you to the grave, and life must go on.

If your wife earns money, be grateful to God for that, because you can always rely on her when you're down financially.

Relying on your wife is not the same as depending on your wife for survival.

However, you don't allow it to get to your head.

If you relax because your wife is helping you financially, sooner or later, you may see disrespect and possible cheating.

Because according to you, both of you are one.

Yes, you're one but both of you have different roles to play in the marriage.

She cannot be playing her roles and playing yours as well and you expect her to be happy.

Pay your wife the debt you owe her, and maintain your respect and submission.

Do all you can to preserve your source of livelihood and don't take unnecessary risks simply because you think your wife got your back.

And the truth is, you'll always owe your wife.

Even when you die.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Dear young people (graduates) in the corporate world,

If you're working in a firm where your:

1. Pensions are significantly delayed in being remitted to your PFA.

2. You don't have basic health insurance packages.

3. Your salary doesn't come when due.

4. You do not see any career path or growth.

5. Your firm doesn't organize trainings, seminars, or webinars that can help you grow in your career, and improve your skills.

6. You don't get any bonuses or proper, structured leave days.

7. You don't get a salary raise each year.

Please start looking for another job.

If you stay in that job for too long, you may become redundant and demotivated.

Go work where you will be appreciated, not where you will be tolerated.

Your employer is not helping your life or career.

End.

[Ultideyforyou🤓💯🗨 @Saint_Ulti_mate]

I don't know who needs to hear this but..
SANITARY PÆD SHOULD BE SHARED AMONGS OUR LADIES FREELY especially to the ones school instead of sharing CONDØM free becos S3X is a choice but M3NSTRUATION is compulsory. It’s not easy 4 dem to keep up @Fmohnigeria @instablog9ja @Naija_PR

[Ultideyforyou🤓💯🗨 @Saint_Ulti_mate]

I don't know who needs to hear this but..
SANITARY PÆD SHOULD BE SHARED AMONGS OUR LADIES FREELY especially to the ones school instead of sharing CONDØM free becos S3X is a choice but M3NSTRUATION is compulsory. It’s not easy 4 dem to keep up @Fmohnigeria @instablog9ja @Naija_PR

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

A boy doesn't become a man, until he starts to see his mother the way his father sees her.

Your mother is not the same as your father's wife. Your real mother is your father's wife.

End.

[Ultideyforyou🤓💯🗨 @Saint_Ulti_mate]

@jon_d_doe Either last year or early this year..... at Edo state some cvltists took new members to the bush for initiation and kidnappers came, kidnapped both old and new members😂😂😂

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If my lovely wife leaves me today for any reasons best known to her.

You won't see me come online to cry.

I did not pay her school fees.

I did not pay her rent while dating her.

I did not buy her phones while dating her.

I did not give her money for hair while dating her.

I did not give her family shishi while dating her.

I did not send her tfare while dating her.

I did not halt my growth or career while dating her and even in marriage.

Everything that I have ever done for her, I did them because she invested in me and sacrificed for me.

And because she's raising responsible children for me and taking good care of me as her husband and father to our children.

So I'll not have any regrets that I wasted money.

Because I didn't put the cart before the horse.

And I'll co-parent with her in peace because she's a good mother.

I don't even mind willing some of my assets to her, even as an ex wife.

When I tell you that I am blessed by God with a wife, I am not joking.

I know who I married, and I cannot deceive myself for public validation.

She's not a perfect woman, but she's a woman that I have embraced her imperfections wholeheartedly.

End.

[AJE @Riddwane]

Just in: President Tinubu’s delegation arrived in Ogbomoso, Oyo State en route Esiele and Yawota villages in Oriire LGA, where armed bandits raided three schools and abducted pupils and teachers.

The delegation includes NSA Nuhu Ribadu, Chief of Staff Femi Gbajabiamila, IGP Tunji Disu, Defence Minister Christopher Musa, Minister of Power, Chief Joseph Tegbe and presidential media aide, Mr. Sunday Dare.

[JP Attueyi @jpattueyi]

I travel a lot and whenever I’m at the airport lounge, I usually look for an older person sitting alone to talk to.

Preferably an older woman.

Older people carry a kind of perspective you can’t Google.

One day, I walked into the lounge and saw an elderly woman sitting by herself, drinking tea and scrolling through her phone.

I walked up to her and asked if I could sit with her.

She looked genuinely surprised.

Like she couldn’t understand why a younger man would willingly choose her table.

After a brief hesitation, she smiled and said yes.

We started talking.

She was flying back to Abuja after visiting her grandchildren.

Her husband had died five years earlier.

She told me she had been a stay-at-home mother for almost 30 years and now had more free time than she knew what to do with.

At some point, she asked if I was married.

I told her yes.

Over a decade.

She paused for a moment, then said something that caught me completely off guard:

“Your generation doesn’t keep marriages anymore.”

I laughed.

She didn’t.

Then she added:

“Most people today are lucky to make it to five years. And it will get worse with the next generation.”

So I asked her why she thought marriages were failing more today.

She took a sip of tea and said:

“Because they don’t make men the way they used to.”

That immediately caught my attention.

I asked, “You think it’s mostly the men?”

She nodded calmly.

“I know people will say I’m blaming men, but most failed marriages happen because men fail to do the needful.”

“The needful?” I asked.

She leaned back slightly and said:

“There are two things men used to understand that modern men no longer do.”

Then she looked me dead in the eye and said:

“And when men stop doing these two things, women eventually leave.”

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Please read from a married man who lives in Canada 👇

[NEFERTITI @firstladyship]

Apostle Johnson Suleman is back with another powerful truth. He has urged Nigerians not to vote for Bola Ahmed Tinubu. He said four years is enough. Sermons like this should go viral. 👏

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Once two mature adults say to themselves that "we want this relationship to work", it's done.

You the woman must cut off all distractions and focus on your man, show him respect & be feminine.

You the man must keep to your words, & walk the talk. You must show financial readiness & other signs that you want to be a married man.

If you want to cheat, you are better off cheating with prostitutes and pay them off.

Stop cheating with normal women who are also looking for husbands, because they can ruin the beautiful relationship you're building with your girlfriend.

And it can make your serious girlfriend start to lose trust in you, and it can make her to start considering other options, thereby cheating on you too.

Everyday, you come to this community to read posts and comments from different single women.

I sometimes intentionally put these women in the spotlight so that they can be noticed by serious men.

I flirt with them, post their pictures, and give you hints of what you men should be looking out for.

But for some of you, you're cruising.

I am married ooo.

Those ladies are single & want to be married too.

Look at yourself very well as a man.

Are you in your late 20s and in your 30s?

Are you working legitimately?

Do you live alone?

Can you feed yourself, a woman and at least one child?

Then if you check these boxes, you're a potential bachelor.

You'll never run out of totos to fuck.

Stop fucking around and make one lady your serious girlfriend and marry first.

You'll still meet plenty totos ahead.

I have provided several opportunities for both men and women to connect with each other through my platforms.

But lack of seriousness is your undoing.

You people are getting older everyday.

Time waits for no one.

End.

[Cleopatra | Seduce Her 💋 @SeduceCleopatra]

If you want her to open up…
and actually look forward to your texts…

You need to stop playing it safe.

Safe = boring.
Boring = forgotten.

Most guys ask questions that go nowhere.

33 questions that actually make her think, feel, and associate those feelings with you...

[Ultideyforyou🤓💯🗨 @Saint_Ulti_mate]

@jon_d_doe Since when @jon_d_doe made this post, I never see any lady post saying she's Tiv, Catholic, Benue State. Does this mean we don't have Tiv AGBAFIAN ladies 🤔 😕

[Simons @Simon_Ingari]

From Day 1 of marriage , one of my close friends started sending 250,000 every month to his parents.

No excuses. No delays.

Parents lived in a small town. Simple life. No demands.

8 years passed.24 million sent. My friend always thought, “At least they are comfortable.”

In 2024, his father passed away suddenly. While arranging documents, his mother handed him a bank passbook.

Balance: 29.5 million. Every everything he sent… was saved. Plus earned interest.

Inside the passbook, there was a small folded note.
“For your children’s future. – Papa”

My friend thought he was supporting them. They were silently building his safety net.
Moral:Parents never stop being parents.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Perhaps, I hope I have been able to shed more light on why I always encourage young men to strive to be providers for their family.

When my lovely wife lost her job and said she wanted to be a stay-at-home wife and mother, I was angry for some years..

There were times I would come back home, & use harsh words on her.

She would cry to sleep and I wouldn't care much.

Aside from seeing the result of that decision, one other thing that motivated me was my father.

That man single-handedly raised six children all by himself.

He paid all our fees and took care of us until we became adults and independent, even though he was not a university graduate.

I have just two.

So, I said to myself:

"If my father could do it, why can't I?"

Another thing I told myself was:

What has my lovely wife done wrong for me to be angry? Will God truly be happy with me? What if she left like my mother and left the kids with me? Would I not be able to cope?

So, I asked God for forgiveness, faced my reality, and started appreciating my wife more.

I have one strong belief: I believe God blesses the work of thy hands if you use the proceeds to cater to your wife and children with kindness and gratitude.

It won't be easy, but you'll see yourself pull through.

Until God says no more.

But as long as you're alive, healthy, and willing, you must play your role as a husband and father.

And do it without being entitled or a bully to your wife and children.

Just make sure that before you choose your wife, you choose her mother. And know that whatever number of children you have decided to have, must be according to our financial strength alone.

Not according to you and your wife's financial strength, so that you won't set yourself up for failure.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I saw a video of a married woman whose husband carried out a DNA test on their 4 children, and they all turned out to be his.

The man behind the camera asked her:

"So you're a faithful woman?"

The woman was jumping with joy that she's a faithful woman.

Why did her husband doubt her faithfulness in the first place?

Let me just say this to married men.

You should not beat your chest to say that your wife has been faithful to you or not.

As long as you do not know or suspect her, believe it silently that she has been a faithful wife.

The only prayer I would advice that you pray, is that may all your children be biologically yours.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

In October of last year, a married man of over 15 years came to me to complain about the issues he was having in his marriage.

They have 3 kids.

Two daughters and a son.

The son is the last born.

During one of the quarrels, his wife boldly told him (3ce) that he's not the biological father of the boy.

I adviced him not to react, but that he should secretly carry out a DNA test on his 3 children.

But he said he didn't have the finance to do all 3 at once.

Then I adviced that he should start with the boy.

Last night, he came to me to share the result of the DNA.

He's the biological father of the boy.

He says he's relieved and happy, but he would still do the DNA tests on his 2 daughters.

I sincerely pray that he's their biological father.

Unfortunately, his son told his mother about it because he took him from school to the laboratory center.

His wife was furious and was demanding that since he has done a DNA on his son, he must do same for his daughters.

He said he would do the DNA but gave her 3 conditions.

1. If negative, she will be the one to break the news to them. If positive, life goes on.

2. Regardless of the outcome, she is responsible for the costs. She will pay for the test.

3. That he has agreed and will conduct same test on his daughters since she is insisting. But rule 2 applies.

My take:

A wife who boldly told her husband 3 times, that he's not the biological father of his son, knew what she was saying and doing.

But God was so kind to the man.

She miscalculated and her watery mouth would soon expose her.

End.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

God bless this woman.

All those oloshos and greedy girls will think that she's speaking French.

Una eyes go peel.