Nobody talks about how peaceful it is to have money in the bank.
Not rich. Just enough. Enough to say no. Enough to wait. Enough to breathe.
That is the goal.
Highly recommend letting people know you're capable of madness from time to time. Especially as a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect... let people know you can go from O to Thanos real quick...
Unfortunately you are a loser by association if you date a deadbeat, rapist or an abuser. Why are you openly loving a loser if you yourself aren't one?
Dear Diary..
Two things I'm NOT doing.. Teaching no friend to be a friend.. & teaching a man to be a man. If it ain't in you by now, it never will be in you!
this is exactly it.
because more often than not, people aren't asking out of curiosity. they're trying to establish a hierarchy.
who earns the most.
who's "doing well."
who's "behind."
and suddenly people stop being people and start becoming measurements.
have some decorum bro
Well, because most persons even witthin queer communities are biphobic and homophobic.
They still find it wierd that a man can be attracted to another man.
And the acceptance for women isn't really acceptance, it's more fetishization than inclusivity. Wlw turns most on.
My biggest fear? Not being successful. I’ll be 30 next year mme I’ve got very little to show for it. Zero assets, living paycheck to paycheck, my salary is for needs.. I can’t afford nice things. A P500 emergency is a major inconvenience, always on survival mode. Nothing bangs.
Getting into a relationship with them is one thing.
"Caging" them and making their lives revolve around you is another thing because what is that possessiveness and stinky insecurities masked as love??