I’m in my “growing into the leaders we looked up to as kids” Arc like when Shikamaru told Naruto they had to grow up and become awesome ninja like Asuma and Jiraiya, not for yourself but for those around you
The very purpose of spirituality is self-discipline. Rather than criticizing others, we should evaluate and criticize ourselves. Ask yourself, what am I doing about my anger, my attachment, my pride, my jealousy? These are the things we should check in our day to day lives.