You don't need to be kind to unkind people. Stop wasting energy on those who thrive on disrespect. Being polite to them doesn't earn respect, it just teaches them they can keep crossing lines.
Boundaries matter more than fake civility. If someone shows you they don't care, believe them. Cut the tolerance, cut the patience, cut the access. Protect your time, protect your peace, protect your standards. Kindness is earned, not owed.
At the beginning of this year, I truly thought it would be my year. Now, six months in, life has taught me lessons I never expected to learn. The biggest one? Stay humble, be kind, and never wish bad upon anyone. Karma exists, and life has a way of balancing everything. I’ve seen disappointments, heartbreaks, and realities I wasn’t prepared for. I learned that not everyone values relationships the way you do, that some people choose money, pride, or ego over people they claim to love but that’s their karma, not mine. Some lessons hurt, but they change you forever. But I’ve also learned that growth often comes from the hardest seasons.
The next six months are for my peace, my happiness, and my growth. A gentle reminder not everyone will stay, not everyone will support you, and that’s okay. Focus on yourself, trust God’s timing, and keep moving forward with a good heart
A message for today…
Not every loss is a punishment. Some losses are protection & some endings save you from futures you cannot yet see.
Trust that what feels unfair today may make sense tomorrow.
Often you get more from a loss or failure than you get ever get from a win!
Read this when everything feels off
Some days just feel heavy for no clear reason. It’s like a fog settles over your thoughts, and nothing quite clicks. That’s okay. Not every day has to be productive or positive. Some days are just meant for slowing down.
When you feel overwhelmed or low, your mind might dig up every old fear, every regret, every doubt. But remember: one bad day doesn’t undo all the good in your life. It doesn’t mean you’re failing. It doesn’t mean it’ll always be like this. Feel your emotions. Let them move through you without judgment. But don’t let them define you. You don’t have to fix everything right now. You don’t need to have all the answers today. Instead, be gentle with yourself. Cancel the noise.
Choose softness. Wrap yourself in a blanket, play your comfort show, drink something warm, or just close your eyes for a while. Rest is not a reward it’s a need. Let the storm pass. It always does. And when it does, you’ll find your light again. Just hold on. You’ve made it through every bad day so far. You’ll make it through this one too. And when you come out on the other side, you’ll be stronger, softer, and a little more you. That’s the quiet beauty of it all.
@LeeAndersonMP_ Two sexist, misogynist, racists chewing the fat in a white van desperately trying to convince voters to believe your lies.
The game is up, Trigger. Your lies and propaganda don't track. Reform are rumbled. Deal with it.
@LeeAndersonMP_ Hope trumps hate, sexism, misogyny, homophobia, racism and your candidate refusing to apologise...
EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.
Kenyon is about as fit for public office as Crippen. He's shown us who he is, guess what? We fucking believed him and he's a car crash degenerate!
@SuellaBraverman Are you so insecure that you'll retweet any lame-arsed confirmation bias?
For balance, you were unprofessional, incompetent and talking utter bollocks, as usual.
@RobKenyonReform You'll be returning to obscurity after Thurs...you can then drop the pretence and carry on being the sexist, misogynistic, homophobe and racist, you've repeatedly proven yourself to be.
You're not fit to hold public office. You won't do a DBS, why the hell should you be trusted?
@SuellaBraverman You're a liar. You were sacked.
Explain in cogent legal detail how leaving the ECHR would have prevented the attack in Belfast? You haven't provided an explanation because there isn't one.
You and Jenrick gave the attacker LTR. You're responsible, own your negligence.
@SuellaBraverman You are a liar. You were sacked.
Explain in cogent legal detail how leaving the ECHR would have prevented the attack in Belfast? You haven't provided an explanation because there isn't one.
You and Jenrick gave the attacker LTR. You're responsible, own your negligence.
Your attention is sacred.
Human attention is the most valuable resource on Earth. My experience and studies have confirmed this.
Where attention goes, energy flows. Our entire global economy is built on harvesting yours.
So the question isn't whether you can heal or build or create. It's whether you're directing your attention — or someone else is.
REPEAT AFTER ME:
WE DO NOT BEG to sit at tables we're not invited to. WE DO NOT CHASE people who exclude or ignore us.
We do not seek healing from those who hurt us.
We do not sell ourselves out to get into someone's circle.
We do not set ourselves on fire to keep others warm.
We create our own circle.
We surround ourselves with only those who truly love, understand, and respect us.
We learn where to express our energy.
WE REMEMBER OUR SELF-WORTH.