You might feel comfortable free-mixing cause you feel confident in yourself, but you become an example for your children later on. I tried to maintain boundaries in life but with kids I’m even more adamant cause I fear that they will learn the wrong things before they’re ready.
@KerrDepression I get what he’s saying but the trads also have a point. It’s tough to function and not lose yourself. Maybe it’s better to oscillate between the two, like engage in society then disengage completely to ward yourself from the fitna. Idk if most of us are that strong.
In 10-15 years the guys rage baiting today will find no respect from either their peers or young adults and instead be seen as the weird goofys they actually are.
I’ve had a complete 180 on the issue of Hijra this past year, but instead of choosing one Muslim country to move to I believe hijra is moving to many. Have sources of revenue in many countries and houses in many lands so your children have multiple safety nets instead of one.
@bundlecandy Salafi elders understand how to keep their flock in check, they know if they’re exposed to the whole breadth of ahlus sunnah they will be far more tolerant and a tolerant understanding crowd dont make good soldiers.
Autism in one tweet. Islamic ethics is not simply pouring over fiqh manuals. If that was all, nobody would have ever written on adab and ihsan. The idea that “technically according to this legal manual you have the right to do X, but you prob shouldn't” isn't an alien concept