Sam Tarvc

Writing about life as a man ||
Grow from survive to thrive starting with yourself ||

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

Divorce is hard on men.

But sometimes, it’s a hidden blessing.

You learn that the things you thought could break you… can’t.

If I survived it, you can survive it.
If I can thrive after it, so can you.

I write so no man has to walk through this alone.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@aruvinchan There are no right or wrong ways to do it.

If you’re staying in the same area as you raise children and you buy within your budget, owning a home can make sense.

If you want the traveling, bachelor lifestyle, renting makes more sense.

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@aruvinchan Why does he even let himself be recorded and humiliated like that?

Never take that nonsense from anyone.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@coachgregadams Only if the man let it happen

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@Cr7Godbrand There will be no more celebration for pregnancy. Only expectation with no appreciation.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

The beliefs that got you here won’t get you where you need to go.

“Follow your passion.”
“Be the bigger man.”
“Time heals.”

A simple test: “How has it been working for me?”

If it brings you the life you want, keep it.
If not, discard it.

Replace it with what you know is true.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

The best way to deal when your woman is upset is to acknowledge what she feels.

Don’t problem solve.
Don’t appease.
Apologize if you’re at fault.

Just be present. That’s the starting point.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@CaudilloNuclear Religion is not an excuse to suspend disbelief.

Ignore reality at your own risk.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@CaudilloNuclear Test it on the husbands.

"Should a man protect and provide?"

See the difference.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

Young men’s interest in older women isn’t new.

The real question: do older women want them long-term. Are they okay being the breadwinner?

If not, the article is irrelevant, it’s just a sexual fling for both sides.

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@askaya Young men has not accrued enough value in life so that’s all they can afford.

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@aruvinchan Women needs to be the one in love

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@Solitude631 @Layserguy @iamAtheistGirl Through abortions, women have killed millions of men

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@RealDianeYap That idea won't work for your boss at a job, let alone a man with self respect.

Does an employer lose when a bad employee quits?

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@CaudilloNuclear There’s a long check lists to be a real man.

But to be a real woman, all you need is to say that you are one.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@aruvinchan One person is wearing the pants and it's not him.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

The difference between learning and consuming is blurred.

Both cases, you’re looking at a screen.

One is intended by you.
The other is intended to get you addicted.

Learning is easier than ever, and harder as well.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@CaudilloNuclear Once a guy experience genuine burning desires, he’ll never go back to chasing low interest women, no matter how attractive.

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@TheLaurenChen The data on dating apps shows the following...

"But the zoo shows otherwise!" 😂

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

@aruvinchan She’s mad because you refused being friend zoned 😂

The audacity

[Sam Tarvc @SamTarvc]

I’m just saying that people play this game of not communicating while placing expectation, which is immature.

“I’m not going to tell him what I want, but if he doesn’t know, that means he doesn’t love me”

What about all the time your boyfriend needs something from you. Do you know it every time? Or does he need to communicate with you?