@obsessafilma@MadelaineLucyH That should be obvious. Should.
As I said, I'm fine with sex work or "play".
It also helps if the younger person initiates, or the girl if same age.
But for "real" dating, life stages and shared experience are important, I can't magine a 40yo marrying a 19yo going well at all.
@NotMerkle@MadelaineLucyH That's fine, be complicit in your ignorance as you cheer on Johnny Sins plowing 20yos while being outraged by a 10 year age gap in casual sex.
But hey, someone is directing the 40yo's dick, so it's not like he actually enjoys it, that would be predatory.
@MadelaineLucyH@lanansla Ot he could just make it blunt that he just wants to fuck and she somehow still misreads that like a retard and suddenly it's the older man's fault.
Or even the boy her age's fault, because it can never be a young woman's fault.
@MadelaineLucyH Yeah, just shrug off a 21yo whoring her holes out to old men while rabidly attacking even a modest age gap, even in casual sex.
A 35yo and a 21yo hooking up for a ONS is more problematic to you than a 21yo becoming a pornstar? Intriguing
@MadelaineLucyH So you're against a 30yo dating or even hooking up with a 21yo but a 21yo signing contracts to get plowed by 50yos on camera is fine?
"21 sounds like a perfectly mature age to whore herself, as long as no creepy 30yo sleeps with her in real life, she's just a kid after all"
@hughp1970@MadelaineLucyH Yes but it is hypocritical to grant a young woman the maturity to be a sex worker and yet infantilise her in a private casual hookup. I'd argue they're fairly similar in risk etc.
In retrospect though she was making a practical observation/reality check,not a moral judgement.
@obsessafilma@MadelaineLucyH I perfectly understand consent, and I believe that financial incentive and youth combined can significantly cloud judgement, and consent.
I'm not against casual adult sex regardless of age gap, nor of sex work, but I feel like both should be approached with caution.
@obsessafilma@MadelaineLucyH I believe I was referring specifically to casual sex in regards to age differences, something I made clear.
Long term dating is a different thing, but still not inherently problematic, but probably incompatible.
And less of the personal attacks please. Be friendly bro.
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@obsessafilma@MadelaineLucyH Okie dokie, tell me exactly what you really meant, and why one seems to be more concerning to you than the other despite some degree of overlap.
Also because sex is in a way so unique, I could ask "is it really consent if she wouldn't have done that without money involved?"
@NotMerkle@Jocelyn_Rache@MadelaineLucyH So what you're essentially saying is it's far more acceptable for a 19yo and a 50yo to fuck as long as someone is "directing his dick", rather than them actually enjoy it privately, but you're struggling to say why.
How is a 19yo old enough for that but not a hookup with a 50yo?
@The_Goonhongo@mbur82@MadelaineLucyH No, but being inside a woman and nutting on her face generally does count.
Women don't become fruit when they do porn. Certified fact.
@The_Goonhongo@mbur82@MadelaineLucyH What the fuck does a real or fake orgasm have to do with whether or not it's actually sex? And yes,I can.
A woman can still have a real orgasm while being raped, that doesn't make it consensual.
She can also pretend to orgasm while having consensual sex. Doesn't make it rape.
@The_Goonhongo@mbur82@MadelaineLucyH They're having sex, all the psychological and biochemical responses of sex still occur, the penetration still occurs.
The ethical concerns regarding sex and consent are the same, and money makes true sexual consent dubious.
And porn is not acting, it's sex, with acting.
@The_Goonhongo@mbur82@MadelaineLucyH A 19yo had to sign a contract under financial incentive and have actual real sex with a 50yo to create that "fantasy", so comparing porn to a movie is retarded.
Script aside it's still actual sex that they had to perform, all the ethics concerns regarding sex are still present
@NotMerkle Transphobia is just discomfort with the uncanny valley. If they were passable or at least nice I could look past it but they rarely are.
Again you're a guy that thinks 21/40 hooking up is predatory but 21 in porn is fine so perhaps you don't value sexuality that much after all.