"Socialism never took root in America because the poor see themselves not as an exploited proletariat but as temporarily embarrassed millionaires."
- John Steinbeck
"Dying for your country is a patriotic fairy tale. In reality, you will bleed out in the mud like a butchered dog for absolutely nothing." - Ernest Hemingway
This. Men wildly overestimate how pleasant they are to be around at baseline. The idea that this phenom is occurring at a large scale is male fantasy/propaganda