Some people, no matter how old they get, never lose their beauty- they merely move it from their faces into their hearts….. we welcome Tuesday…..💙
🖌️ Martin Buxbaum
I live a very private life. Away. Alone. Observing. Learning. I never get bored. Like ever. I love vibing alone. Just doing my shit. Writing. Reading old classics. Watching documentaries about ancient Egyptians. Listening to some low-fi, some classical. Cooking. Pacing around the room. Self-talk about meaning of life and all. Drink green tea on my balcony. Feel the calm. Go for a walk in the woods. Sit on random rock. Talk to a tree. Look at birds going back home. Come home. Focus on my new obsession (mechanical watchmakers). But bored... nah. Never.
I have the deepest affection for intellectual conversations. The ability to just sit and talk. About love, about life, about anything, about everything. To sit under the moon with all the time in the world, bound by no obligations, barred by no human limitations. To speak without regret or fear of consequence. To talk for hours and about what's really important in life.
As i got older, i realized that the secret to getting through the day isn't about staying positive - it's about acceptance. accepting that not every day will be good or happy, that bad days will happen, mistakes will be made, failures will come, and things won't always work out perfectly - and that's completely okay..😇
When I was younger, I used to think true love was tumultuous and intense. But now, I feel like real love is gentle. Passionate in a soft, sweet way. Not fireworks and drama, but a love that’s like coming home, the breeze on a still summer day. A balm to the aches of the world.
Learn to be alone. Eat alone. Sleep alone. Vibe alone. Heal alone.
Become so rooted in yourself that you don't need opinions,
validation, or approval to feel okay.
Because when you're comfortable in your own company, you stop settling for people who disturb your peace.
a man who truly loves you will never expose you to pain, humiliation, indifference, sad sleep, disrespect, or leave you emotionally, physically or financially vulnerable. at the first sign of any of these, take your stuff and go, because it will destroy you!!
“The older I get, the more comfortable I am with letting things go. Everything doesn't warrant a reaction, response, or rebuttal. I am most peaceful when I preserve my energy for things that elevate ease in my life.”
— Alex Elle
It's a strange feeling when you realize no one has ever fought to keep you. Not really. You've been liked, appreciated, maybe even loved in small ways, but never in a way that made someone say, "I can't lose you." And after a while, you stop expecting anyone to choose you like that.
“In your life you meet people. Some you never think about again. Some, you wonder what happened to them. There are some that you wonder if they ever think about you. And then there are some that you wish you never have to think about again. But you do”
— C.S. Lewis