Do you know that men often suffer from "Delayed Grief" because they aren't allowed to crash when the tragedy actually happens?
When a death or crisis occurs, the man immediately shifts into "Superman Mode." He is consoling the crying women, being strong for the children and trying not to look weak so he can strengthen people around him.
He postpones his own pain to manage the chaos.
By the time he is finally ready to grieve, maybe 6 months later, the world has moved on. If he cries then, he is told to "get over it." So he never processes it. he just calcifies.
There’s a million ways to miss a penalty on purpose. Tell the keeper. Sky it. Pass it. That was NOT one of them. He was crying for 10 minutes afterwards? What is happening in AFRICA