Having a child with someone is something so very intimate🥺. I am so blessed to have experienced this with the best man ever, I'll love him forever for how well he cared for me throughout the pregnancy, labour and recovery ❤️.
Gets paid.
Pays bills.
Spoils myself.
Spoils my bhub.
Broke for the rest of the month even if you see me and my baby living in a little bit of luxury, I don't have money for YOU!!
Regards
xxx
Having your own money changes the dynamic you have with the people in your life. From parents, friends to romantic partners. It gives you a chance to love and interact with them from a place of choice and not survival. Your money gives you options of who stays in your life.
I've always interpreted women "not asking for shit" as them giving you room to do the things that all women want but at your own pace. It's a thoughtful thing to do but it doesn't mean they don't want the things that women love like grand romantic gestures and vacations etc 1/2