@preshgaza This is why we need to thank Wizkid for saving Afrobeats not every artist can sound good on live performances like they they do on recordings.
If i drop my pride and enter your D.M and ask you to add me to your private snap, please respect my old age and add me abeg. No need for interrogation and stress!.
Thank you in advance!.
It's so easy to forget the victories of the past and focus on the trials of the moment.
It's so easy to complain and talk about the pain and forget God’s goodness and mercies.
But when I look over my shoulder to see how far you've brought me,it's so clear you have bn faithful😔🙏
In her words “when I go to visit a guy in his place, I use style to ask for his convenience, if I see any of those paint buckets in his bathroom/toilet, I start to use style to avoid/disconnect with him after then…it’s like a red flag for me”
I think this is a great way to manage your family finances and hedge against money problems in the future, but I do not recommend it if your partner is not genuinely kind to you and trustworthy. If not it might excarbate your money issues.
Because your finances are open, it keeps you accountable and prevents you from making bad decisions or FOMOing because it's in both your interest to conserve and grow wealth rather than lose it on a gamble.
Doing this eliminates any thought around why the other person has nice things and you're unable to afford anything, especially in relationships where there's a big earning gap.
All expenses are shared, and you do nice things for each other from the money you pay yourselves.
This puts the reality of our finances in both our faces rather than each person struggling with their finances on their own.
It also means we've shared money goals and we're invested in helping each other reach those dreams because we're heavily incentivized to be aligned.
Every income gets remitted into a joint account and we take a monthly salary from there for our personal selves, and other expenses. The rest of it is split evenly and we make decisions on where to invest it together. If income goes up/down, we can take more/less salary.
Before getting married I heard how money was a big reason why couples fight, so while dating I was open about finances. I used to give my money away as fast as I earned it and being open helped me fix that.
After getting married, I took this openness many steps up.