this is no joke. these 2 women came up to me on campus and starting talking about God to me, asked how strong my faith was, talked to me about 20 minutes about a church, and asked me to join. they seemed like extremely religious individuals so i gave in. BE CAREFUL WHO YOU TRUST!
Instead of saying “you can come if you want to,” say “I want you to come.” That’s the difference between feeling like an obligation and actually feeling wanted.