They lied‼️‼️
Helping people does NOT bring blessings..It brings audacity. It brings entitlement. It brings people who think you owe them forever because you showed up once.
The more you give, the more they expect...The more you sacrifice, the less they respect it. And the minute you say “No”? Now you’re the villain.
I’m at the point where I see why “Selfish” people win.
They sleep Good..
They’re not drained.
They’re not explaining themselves.
So yeah. Call it selfish. Call it cold.
Call it whatever you want to called it, Make sure you're choosing yourself.
Watching yourself fall apart financially,
not because you’re idle,
but because every effort to stay afloat
only drags you deeper,
slowly,relentlessly,
into the dark.