@el_diablllo_ So that struggling tailor aunty Kafaya, that is marrying boda Shina wey get okada, furnished room and parlor is marrying him because he earns (money) enough to cater for her. Irrespective of the social strata money is a fundamental factor in women marriage choices.
@el_diablllo_ Honest question "what do you mean marrying for money?"
For a gender that is largely hypergamous, they literally marry someone who is financially more stable than they are, 99% of the time. So literally and financially, most times money is either a direct, indirect factor.
@OtitoNosike "He pampers me and agrees to my opinion all the time". That exactly is the problem.
My mason once told me, he at times intentionally says no when his wife asks for something even when he agrees or can afford it. Women, just like children need to hear no!
@Esther290354929 That choice was arrived, not suddenly out of increased respect for your husband, but because you had an unpleasant experience going out despite your husband's misgivings. If nothing unpleasant had happened, then your initial disobedience would have been emboldened.
@aoevisuals Someone connected me with a client, and we introduced landscape proposal with rear flat demarcation.
She asked for design, I replied I charge for design. She asked for sample design, sent a view once Whatsapp design. After payment, I sent the full design suite.
@_Somtochi "No mention of integrity, emotional discipline, shared values, or the kind of life you are prepared to build with him"
Then later in marriage you complain cheating, physically or emotional abusive, because the most important qualities were ignored for material considerations
@BlessedGirl001 In the context used here is apt, very true.
In another context, such as setting up an electronic gadget, it might mean an admission of inability. My boss niece said so when I showed her how to connect the battery of her rechargeable fan.
@Peacerayy What you most likely mean is that they find it easy to get the type of man they want. It will be easy, because a woman who has whored around and had experiences with different men, will know what it takes to get the naive largely "better man". The experience the "good girls" lack
@Peacerayy This mindset only serve to encourage irresponsible lifestyle.
Furthermore, there has to be a definition of "better man" . Because a better man in the true sense of it will not settle for them, and a woman is most likely not the best person to tell who a "better man" is.
@Gracevnvx You must think older women were sexually naive.
Guess you never sat in to their conversation in salons or heard them converse with their colleagues on the lobbies.
Ask guys who found themselves in these settings, women conversation irritated them.