@FrozenFlauschi@Theholisticpsyc Also, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents was so eye opening about emotional maturity in general. And Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist. Emotional immaturity or unwillingness to sit and hear how you feel is a 🚩 and will get worse if he doesn’t address it
@FrozenFlauschi@Theholisticpsyc I’ve found this very helpful so far and I’ve just been listening to the audiobook. I’ll gift it to you through Audible if you’d like! I’ll dm you for your email. I’ve also really enjoyed everything by the Gottmans about fights in marriage.
@FrozenFlauschi@Theholisticpsyc So they condition you that they can act however and do whatever they want, walking all over you while you walk on eggshells
@FrozenFlauschi@Theholisticpsyc I’d bet his feelings/demands on the relationship just don’t come across as outwardly emotional, so he is gaslighting you into believing your “emotions” are the problem. My therapist called this emotional manipulation/gaslighting.
@FrozenFlauschi@Theholisticpsyc Use extreme caution because the result of this is it becomes impossible to question anything in your relationship because you know the reaction will be so poor/dismissive….which is the goal. Control.
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