Unfortunately, a man who’s never been loved properly or been in a real, serious relationship will spend his whole life fumbling the first person who actually does love him. He’ll call boundaries “control,” communication “nagging,” and accountability “disrespect” because emotional intelligence is a language he never learned. Then he’ll sabotage every good thing that comes into his life and still convince himself he was the victim while having manipulative actions.
Finally woke up and realized that the person I was “talking to” was never going to be my man and I was just over romanticizing a situationship that was never going anywhere.
Whew! Happy Monday ☀️
men ever sit & think, Damn she’s doing everything to keep me in her life in a generation where most people don’t even try. She forgives me every time. She gives me chance after chance. She still chooses me hoping I’ll change even when I mess up & here I am taking her for granted.
This is your confirmation. You are not reading this by accident. You are going to make it no matter what your situation looks like. God is sending a positive change your way with the solution you need, healing, and love. So be strong, hold on, and don't give up. Your miracle is on the way.
Call me toxic, but I don't want my man being overly friendly and emotionally available to another woman. I don't care if she's a friend, coworker, or an ex. Respect comes with boundaries.
i stayed loyal to a man who continuously hurt me, lied to me, ignored me, hid things from me, watched me break into a million pieces with o zero emotions on his face but at the end of it all, still told me he loved me so much.
A cheating man is bad enough.
But you know what's even worse? A man who acts like he's good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a calculated manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim role 💯
Woman to Woman: You gotta learn when to let that man go Some of y’all be holding on to somebody who’s been showing you for months that he doesn’t want to be there. Stop begging. Stop chasing. Stop trying to convince someone to love you. You don’t need a man to survive. Go make your money, heal, glow up, and pour that energy back into yourself. Men come and go, but your peace shouldn’t. The right man won’t leave you confused about where you stand or make you compete for the bare minimum. If he’s not willing to fix what’s broken, quit carrying the relationship by yourself. Love yourself enough to walk away. What’s truly meant for you won’t require you to do all that.
Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. Because they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. People rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.