Sandraify6

Exploring life,one good habit at a time ,personal growth/ motivation ✨️

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

A friend told me she thought she had found her husband this year.

At the beginning, everything felt perfect.
They would call for hours. Morning messages. Motivation. Sweet words. Plans about marriage, kids, the future.
It felt like love had already finished writing their story.

But lately, things changed.
Calls reduced. Replies became slow. Conversations became shorter… and different.
Now when they talk, it’s no longer about us or the future they once dreamed of. Sometimes it’s just small talk… or even politics… then silence again.
She started asking herself if the love had disappeared.

But what she really wants to understand is this:
what actually holds a relationship together in real life,love or something else¿

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@Nonycutie1 That’s true ,but love still plays a role ,just not the only one.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

A friend told me she thought she had found her husband this year.

At the beginning, everything felt perfect.
They would call for hours. Morning messages. Motivation. Sweet words. Plans about marriage, kids, the future.
It felt like love had already finished writing their story.

But lately, things changed.
Calls reduced. Replies became slow. Conversations became shorter… and different.
Now when they talk, it’s no longer about us or the future they once dreamed of. Sometimes it’s just small talk… or even politics… then silence again.
She started asking herself if the love had disappeared.

But what she really wants to understand is this:
what actually holds a relationship together in real life,love or something else¿

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@Dammi_Esq And that’s why many relationships struggle once the excitement fades.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@Xtasic200 This is true, it usually starts long before anyone realizes it.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@maxnonso I've been craving for it

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@StephenIheke It could be, but sometimes things change gradually, not suddenly

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@SylverBig I can’t really say. Well, naturally, snails are very slow. On the other hand, snails are a rich source of protein. So I don’t know why it seems like that.

[Sylver Big @SylverBig]

Is it true that when you pick snails in the dream it causes set back and delay in progress

[OmolowoAkande🥇 @Tonyjay]

What are making with this fish ?

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@Tonyjay Palm oil rice with enough pepper , red onions scent leaf and crayfish

[Nonso 🎀 @maxnonso]

Dinner is ready!

Fish Or Beans

[Otunba Bini @Otunba_Bini]

What makes this kind of exhaustion so difficult is that it often goes unnoticed.

People see you showing up every day, but they don't see the battles behind the scenes the sacrifices, the disappointments, and the effort it takes to keep moving when everything feels uncertain.

Yet, every step forward, no matter how small, is proof of your resilience.

Life has a way of stretching us in seasons we never asked for, but pressure can also reveal strength we never knew we had.

Your current struggle may be temporary, but the strength you're building can last a lifetime.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@crypts78555 These things are what actually sustain a relationship day to day.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@RuthDtechsavyVA That shift is where most people start questioning everything.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@RuthDtechsavyVA Very true, and if you don’t understand this phases, you can easily misjudge the relationship.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@RuthDtechsavyVA True ,the beginning can feel very convincing.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@Tolks6 True, that combination is what keeps things stable in a long term.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@NurseVictoria01 That’s true, after the honeymoon phase, communication becomes very important.

[Sandraify6 @Sandraify6]

@Auntyisi That’s true, most relationships are really a mix of many things, not just love👍