Hot take: I actually like when people bring up how they relate to my situation. I don’t assume they’re trying to steal the spotlight or one-up me. I see it as a person trying to help however they can by connecting & being vulnerable w me, as we should if we want community
Enhle mbali is just another typical South African bitter woman who's ready to throw dirt on yet another black man's reputation because she knows that her fellow sisters will believe her side of the story the moment she opens her mouth without even considering the man's story