The key to living a comfortable life is confrontation and chaos actually. You have to say no. You have to tell people to fuck off. You have to be mean in necessary situations. A life of peace isn't built off of being a yes man and taking a passive approach to everything
Your anxiety wants guarantees. Life doesn’t give guarantees. The skill is learning to say, “I don’t know what will happen, but I’ll handle it.” That sentence can change the way you see everything.
‘Thinking my singleness is ever a man’s decision is where you fucked up’ is such a real ass statement because do men really think it’s entirely up to them ??