The beauty of being unproblematic is that people underestimate how capable you are of causing problems.
The surprise when you shock them >>>>
Having a job/career where you talk and communicate nonstop with humans, people truly have to understand that sometimes you just wanna be quiet outside of working.
Shonda Rhimes was so right. “Doing the thing undoes the fear.” Once you do it, its not as scary as you thought. Or maybe it was, and you made it out alive. But the key is just doing the thing.
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
1. Mine is being poor!
2. Depending on a man for survival
3. Being a single married woman
4. Being poor
5. Begging a man money to buy pad
6. Giving up my education/goals for love
7. Getting pregnant for a fool
8. Being poor
9. Being poor
10. Marrying a fool
11. Being poor
The fact that you can fall in love with someone, get married,get kids even....then fall out so badly and become enemies that can't see eye to eye scares me so much.