Because a LOT of them never wanted to be parents, they just see it as a societal expectation to fulfill. If you asked any one of them why they became parents you might never get a reasonable response.
@mesa_mese I know the rest of the world isn’t like Atlanta. my point is that if you’re going to settle down and raise children in predominantly white spaces, it’s your responsibility to seek out diversity. just because it’s not locally available doesn’t mean you do nothing