Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦

Family 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Travel 🌎 🌊Part time Taxi driver 🚕👩‍👧‍👦Assistant Principal at Avanti Fields School

[Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦 @SarahKurth2]

Happy Weekend Vibes ❤️

[Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦 @SarahKurth2]

Thank you to our wonderful teachers at Avanti Fields. Student appreciation! ❤️#AvantiFields #gratitude #respect

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So much and many to be thankful to ! Student show of appreciation and Gratitude ❤️

[Dr. Bryan Pearlman #MaslowBeforeBloom @DrP_Principal]

There was a boy named JJ. He was very little when two of his siblings died in a fire. JJ survived but had severe asthma as a result of exposure to inhaling a great deal of smoke. Mom fell out of the picture and grannie raised him and his cousins. In reality, the streets raised JJ. JJ was an explorer and a “frequent flyer” to the counselor and assistant principal’s office. Some of these visits were due to disrupting the class and others were daily stops on his wandering around the building tour. There were times when he would look pre-occupied or deep in thought. When asked about it, he either could not articulate what he was thinking or said he’d rather not speak about it.

As difficult as JJ’s behaviors could be in class, there was something very likeable about JJ. He was a salesman, negotiator, and finagler. JJ had great eye contact, a big smile, and an infectious laugh.

The day before winter break, JJ was sent to the office for being extremely disrespectful to a substitute teacher. The assistant principal lectured him (probably yelled at him) and told him about how disappointed he was in JJ. The conversation went on to how many people were in JJ’s corner and how maybe JJ was just wasting their time if he wasn’t going to step up and do the right thing. JJ cried for the first time that anyone at school could remember. He promised that he would do better and that he was sorry for letting everyone down.

Word spread through the building that the Assistant Principal “stuck it” to JJ. Several staff members stopped by the Assistant Principal’s office to give him a high five and to thank him for being tough on JJ. The assistant principal went home and felt proud of himself for making JJ cry and for teaching him a lesson. He then went on to enjoy winter break with his family, knowing that things would be different and easier with JJ when they returned in January.

A few days later on Christmas day, I received a phone call from the head principal. JJ had a severe asthma attack and died in the ambulance on the way to the hospital.

I went to JJ’s funeral. Grannie told stories about JJ as a baby, toddler, and as a child. She smiled and cried as she detailed memories of his mischief and also the many kind and thoughtful acts he did for his little sister. Grannie then talked about how much he liked his school, his friends, and playing kickball. Grannie paused, surveyed the room, and looked me right in the eyes. She said that the person he loved the most and the one who cared most about him was Dr Bryan Pearlman - his assistant principal. I got up and left. I was crying uncontrollably.

I would have given anything to have five more minutes with JJ. I would have apologized for my behavior and for making him cry. I would have promised him that I would learn more and do better moving forward. I would have told him about how much I enjoyed spending time with him. I would have told him about how amazing he was!

Shame on me. I didn’t know anything about mental health or trauma. I suspended kids and really believed that they would come back with a better attitude and improved behaviors. I kept sending the same students home over and over and really expected a different outcome (this is the definition of insanity). This was particularly ineffective for students dealing with anxiety, depression, or trauma.

Take some time to think about your own “JJ”. Think of one new thing you will try that may help the relationship and reduce the negative behaviors.

You can also post information about your own “JJ” (anonymously if you like) on the “Maslow Before Bloom” Facebook group. We can brainstorm some ideas with the 19,000 other members who are all committed to help all kids to succeed in school and life:
https://t.co/015cLKjJ1m

I think of JJ every day. I miss him so much! Christmas is always the hardest time. I remember that phone call like it was yesterday.

[Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦 @SarahKurth2]

@Boonham @simonrenshaw Lol @Boonham … The list ! 😂

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Big one off on her residential for the week #SilebyRedlands #year6 .

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⁦@NKholia⁩ do you wear your “High Vis at the weekend…” https://t.co/sVXNT1Fh5W

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@AFSPrimary Wow love this Ms Thakore ! Looks like everyone is having the best time .

[Dr Lisa Cherry OBE @_LisaCherry]

This is beautiful 😍

[The Big Help Out @TheBigHelpOutUK]

Watch this video to learn more about the Big Help Out!👇

Starting on Monday 8th May there will be opportunities for everyone to join in.

To get involved visit: https://t.co/N13YCuFp5t

🤝Will you be lending a hand?

[Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦 @SarahKurth2]

Here’s to raising strong women and equally strong supporters #InternationalWomenDay2023

[Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦 @SarahKurth2]

International women’s day! I cannot even begin to list the incredible women I am lucky enough to have in my life . I am so grateful to have learnt so much from them and I continue to learn from daily! Here is a pic of just a few incredible women in my life 4 the last 20+yrs

[MFLMagic @MagicMfl]

I've just made a booklet for the Spanish AQA role plays and photo cards. One for higher and one for foundation. Have a look!https://t.co/fvYujcL8uJ

[British Council Schools @Schools_British]

Find out how hosting a #ModernLanguage assistant in the classroom benefits your students 🌍.

We can help you through the process. Visit: https://t.co/n7N6pvgU1D

#EduTwitter #mfltwitterati #LanguageAssistant

@Languageasst @ALL4Language @NICILT @scottishcilt

[Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦 @SarahKurth2]

Monday motivation

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😂😂😂

[HalilMrT - Official @HalilMrT4Real]

You've been asked to present to staff tomorrow....

One of you has stayed up all night putting the work in ....

And...

One of you just turns up and relies on the natural talent and knowledge you've got!
👇🏽

[Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦 @SarahKurth2]

😂😂😂@NKholia need to tag Laura in too 😂😂😂

[The Happy Newspaper @HappyNewspaper_]

Monday morning thoughts. ✍️💭

[Integrity Coaching @Vivgrant]

There's always more than one way to look at Pupil behaviour...

#sltchat #ukedchat #WomenEd #edchat

[Sarah Kurth 🇺🇦 @SarahKurth2]

@NKholia it’s a lot 😂

[Integrity Coaching @Vivgrant]

The 9 Roles that every great leader plays in their school...

#sltchat #ukedchat #edchat