If you don’t think he’s a woman, you’re transphobic. When he claimed to be a woman, he became a woman. He now belongs in women’s changing rooms, bathrooms, hospital wards, prison cells and rape support centres.
If you try and differentiate between him and a trans woman who looks more convincing as a woman, you are promoting patriarchal beauty norms. If you admit to seeing an aggressive and possibly unbalanced man in this video, you’re saying all trans people are mentally ill predators. If you refuse to let him into female-only spaces, you’re removing his right to exist. If you suggest he could comfortably use male facilities, you secretly want him assaulted. If you refuse to call him ‘she’, you are guilty of unpardonable cruelty. If you’re a woman who wouldn’t want to share a locker room with him, or a man who wouldn’t want your daughter, sister or mother to get undressed in close proximity to him, you belong to the far-right. If you point out that there is no objective difference between his claim to be a woman and that of any other biological male claiming a trans identity, you are too stupid to understand the circular arguments explaining why he’s not really trans whereas other men who say they’re women are really trans.
If you’re righteous, you must argue that this man’s self-declared identity overrides any consideration of the safety and rights of females. To be godly, you must agree he’s as ‘valid’ as every other trans woman, because people are who they say they are. No matter what your eyes, ears and common sense are telling you, if you don’t want to end up on the wrong side of history, you must pretend to believe that this angry, intimidating man is actually a vulnerable, oppressed woman.
So many labels on everyday roles. Even before i always enjoyed cooking, hosting guest, play home decorations but I never did it to perform a persona like 'Oh wow, look at me acting like a housewife.' If you want to do something, just do it because you enjoy it, not to fit a label
Motherhood is something you do, not everything you are. Forget having hours of free time, it’s the little moments that keep you YOU. Sing that song, laugh at the goofy joke, grab your McD’s when you can, loving your life doesn't mean you love your child any less.
Motherhood is something you do, not everything you are. Forget having hours of free time, it’s the little moments that keep you YOU. Sing that song, laugh at the goofy joke, grab your McD’s when you can, loving your life doesn't mean you love your child any less.
Motherhood is a vital role, but it doesn't have to erase the person you were before. You can still dress up, go out, and enjoy your life with friends without treating your old self like a shocking contradiction to being a mom. There. I said it
Motherhood is a vital role, but it doesn't have to erase the person you were before. You can still dress up, go out, and enjoy your life with friends without treating your old self like a shocking contradiction to being a mom. There. I said it
I wonder why parenthood especially motherhood has become an identity. Why can’t we still sing the songs we used to love, enjoy the hobbies we used to do, laugh at movies that made us happy, sure we don’t have so much time for most of that now but why do we need to feel guilty….
I wonder why parenthood especially motherhood has become an identity. Why can’t we still sing the songs we used to love, enjoy the hobbies we used to do, laugh at movies that made us happy, sure we don’t have so much time for most of that now but why do we need to feel guilty….
“I’ve never seen anyone in my life who has been put in such a morbidly absurd lose-lose situation. If Erika laughs, she’s criticized for not crying. If she cries, her tears are fake. If she’s out in public, she should be home grieving. If she’s home grieving, she’s in hiding. If she laughs, she’s a cruel unfeeling psychopath. If she frowns, she’s an icy scheming villain.
Literally no matter what this woman does—no matter what she says, how she looks, her facial expression—it is used as evidence against her.”
YES. 👏👏👏