Adulting is realising that you can’t save everyone out of everything. You can’t want better for people than they do for themselves.
The gap between you and some friends will widen the less accountable they are for their lives and actions. And this is the sad reality.
I can’t reiterate how important it is to offer your friends grace because you have NO idea what’s happening in their lives. Also at the same time it’s so important to be vulnerable and let your friends ,who you know have your back, know the challenges you are going through.