haras_mai

"Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule, but love people who never look at their schedule when you need them."

[𝐕𝐓 @volleytiger]

SARAH G MAKING A STATEMENT.

QUEEN!!!! #UAAPSeason88

[haras_mai @SarahSebs]

@BroadwayJanitor Ang tagal mo kasi "namahinga" kaya dumami kalat d2, paki mop mo nga mang jani🤣

[haras_mai @SarahSebs]

@mainedcm I therefore conclude na minahal nyo ang isa't isa ng hindi sabay.

[Maine Mendoza @mainedcm]

Okay, so about the last podcast episode.. Una sa lahat, I didn’t think the part about my story with Alden would spark controversy, let alone be a big deal, considering that everyone had already moved on from Kalyeserye and AlDub. From the start, I hoped the clashes between fans on both sides would end, at least, even though the hate train aimed at me was nonstop then and apparently still remains so.

The point of our podcast is to look back on Kalyeserye and to discuss and share behind-the-scenes stories—the untold ones—and that can include personal experiences, narratives, and sentiments. I believe it’s acceptable to reflect and openly discuss them for this podcast, especially now that it’s been a decade and all is well between the individuals involved, particularly me and Alden. There is no reason to exclude him from the story/our stories, despite his absence, because he was a big part of Kalyeserye—and it would have felt strange to leave him out. That said, there was no intention to provoke criticism or negativity towards him or anyone else. I was asked, I answered, and I shared a short anecdote.

I believe it’s not a bad thing to share a personal story related to the question and topic, as long that it’s based on facts. There was no malice or ill intent behind my sharing that story about myself, him, and us. There are countless other stories I’ve kept to myself and chosen not to share. You know how podcasts work; they can be really personal, but ours didn’t even go that far. All stories shared were surface-level.

But the biggest question will always be: why do we get criticized for saying our truth and the truth? And why is it when we do, some people resort to personal attacks meant to demean and harm? I get that we have supporters who aren’t really fans of the other, but why the hostility? Why pit a woman against a man, as if there’s a competition for who’s more “successful”? Success, in this sense, is ridiculously measured and defined by career “achievements” as if our lives revolve solely around our jobs. In the grand scheme of things, what is really there to prove? All the hatred and comparisons—what for, really?

All is well among the dabarkads. We’ve all moved on, and the past remains there. We can revisit and reflect on the good and the bad with a peaceful heart. Ten years on, we are all living the lives we chose, and I hope we can keep moving forward without nurturing hate—because what’s the point? What do we gain from hostility? Again, in the grand scheme of things, what truly needs proving? Find your own answer. Let’s live for what makes us happy and make life less complicated and chaotic.

Life is short. When our time comes and memories flash before our eyes, don’t let yours be filled the moments you spewed negativity online. Don’t let it be your only contribution in this life. Ang dami pang pwedeng gawin sa buhay bukod sa pagiging tambay sa internet at pagiging hater. There’s another world of better things to do. Leave a better trace. 🤍

[haras_mai @SarahSebs]

Happiest Birthday @mainedcm thank u sa patuloy na pag papasaya! Isa ako sa maraming nagmamahal sayo ng tahimik, mula noon hanggang ngayun

[tati ᴹᴬᴵᴺᴱ @violahabon]

Arjo’s message to Meng🥰💛😘
@mainedcm #MaineMendoza
CTTO @eatbulaga_TVJ @TV5manila

[Maine Mendoza @mainedcm]

roldan paano

[Momsi, will always be a 𝔐𝔞𝔦𝔫𝔢𝔯 @reallyrabbit]

Maine in her element… a comedienne par excellence 👍

#MaineMendoza 💖 @mainedcm

[Lone Sanch @shar_casm814]

you nailed it @mainedcm a.k.a. Ellen !!!🥰❤👏🏾 @AtashaMuhlach21❤ @Official_TVJ

#LegitDabarkads #TVJonTV5 #tvj

[Joey de Leon @AngPoetNyo]

Ang Poet Nyo with Allan K and Ellen K (for Kyut)! 😋

[EAT BULAGA TVJ @eatbulaga_TVJ]

Finally, nag-arrive na ang Lovers in Hollywood! Hi Ellen and Brad ❤️

[Tofi @tofimendoza]

@AngPoetNyo Bitin galing ni ellen @mainedcm pati speaking voice nkuha nia iba talaga c maine @Official_TVJ #MaineMendoza #LegitDabarkads

[the white light @NavidadRosalind]

KUDOS to @mainedcm for her par excellence performance! ❤️❤️❤️ @Official_TVJ @TV5manila
#MaineMendoza

[⭐'Lyn15'⭐ @itzmemylene]

pasabog talaga si Maine khit ano pa ipagawa nyo sa kanya nakakabilib

#MaineMendoza
@mainedcm
#LegitDabarkads

[Ave - 🅼 - @tius_day]

Declamation on the spot.🤣
@mainedcm #MaineMendoza

[هاشكي5. 0 @ikshah5_0]

ang galing ni maine! hahaha! pati pagsasalita 🤣🥰

#LegitDabarkads #TVJonTV5
#MaineMendoza | @mainedcm
#AtashaMuhlach | @AtashaMuhlach21

[LucyTacion @lulugutz8]

Welcome back, #JoWaPaoMeng! Ang gagaling nyo talaga👏👍lalo na si Ellen...whooooo!!!
#LegitDabarkads
#MaineMendoza
@mainedcm

[ִֶָ @menggalurks]

Maine with Ninang Rhea at her sez Maja & Rambo's wedding 🤍

#MajaRamboSayIDo #MaineMendoza

[ArMaineLovers Group - ArMLG @ArmaineloversG]

"Arjo cutie and the rest is history." Nakakaiyak sya talaga ..kung Ilan ulit mo syang I play ganon din Ang luha mo. @AtaydeArjo @mainedcm @sylviasanchez_a

#MaineMendoza
#ArjoAtayde
#AtaydeMendoza

[ִֶָ @menggalurks]

Fr. Jeff posted a photo with Mr. and Mrs. Atayde 💐🤍

#AtaydeMendoza
#MaineMendoza #ArjoAtayde