A healthy relationship can't exist without boundaries, effort, honesty, reciprocation, respect, trust, safety, support, understanding, open communication, and a willingness to apologize and change your behavior when they tell you you did something that hurt them or upset them.
"Be as kind as you can to as many people as you can as often as you can. Imagine what the world would be like if we all made this our motto.” ~Lori Deschene
"Today, I’m thankful for the people who love me, the places that soothe me, the adventures that fuel me, and the experiences that have shaped me.” ~Lori Deschene
Rest in peace Matthew Perry.
We are devastated by the news of your passing.
Could we be any more heartbroken?
No.
You will be forever loved, always missed and never forgotten. Sending love to you, your family, your friends and your fans.
#MatthewPerry#RIPMatthewPerry
Some people shut down or fight back tears when they try to express how they feel. They were punished for having feelings or completely ignored. Even with safe people they’re overwhelmed. Give grace. Have patience. Allow them to adjust to being understood.
If you pay attention to the patterns of your life you’ll realize everything always works out. Everything always takes you to a greater destination. You always grow and the things you think you can’t survive you somehow divinely make it through. That’s life. Always remember that.
This went viral so I wanted to share it here too..
Do people have depression or are they sad and apathetic because they can’t make ends meet?
Does a teenage girl who’s been violated repeatedly have borderline personality disorder or is this the modern day hysteria? *75% of borderline diagnosis are women*
Do children have a disorder or learning disability because they can’t sit still for 6 hours straight?
Does a mother partnered with an abusive husband have an anxiety disorder or is her body constantly on alert to try to keep her safe?
Are people with a history of abuse having mood swings (likely diagnosed as bipolar) or natural reactions like anger that stem from the past?
Do half of the children in foster care have disorders (like “reactive attachment”) or are they unable to trust or emotionally connect because adults have betrayed them?
We’re diagnosing coping mechanisms.
We’re suppressing valid symptoms.
We’re treating people as quickly as possible to get them back to work. Or, the same environment that made them sick.
May we wake up. May we educate and create collective healing, together.
If you feel this to be true in your body, please RETWEET for awareness 🙏
If you’re ready to heal, @selfhealerscirc is open for a few more days: https://t.co/mVUAYxSMNG
Your intelligence cannot be measured by a number. It is defined by your willingness to learn, solve problems and try new things. Develop your skills. Share your ideas. Your skills are more valuable than your grades.