It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues.
Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
a cheating man is bad enough. you know what is worse? a man who pretends to be good when in reality he’s a pathological liar, lustful, a manipulator and plays the victim.