Iâve never seen anyone tell a man to endure a bad wife, as soon he has a bad wife or he start complaining about his wife,the first thing heâs asked to do is âleave that woman and marry another womanâ, nobody is asking him to pray or fast for his wife or be patient with his wife but when a woman marries a bad Husband everyone is suddenly telling her to pray, the church tells her to endure and fast and give him time to change.
Theyâre telling her sheâs a mother and men are big babies so she need to treat him as one, she should nurture a grown man,itâs the reason why they associate endurance,patience and long suffering with the female gender
Whyâs endurance meant for women and men are told to love themselves and never tolerate any forms of disrespect from a woman?, if you like endure rubbish from a man, he wouldnât tolerate the same from you.
If you feel as a man cheating is in your DNA and itâs your birthright to cheat on your wife, itâs okay not to get hurt when that same partner does the same thing to you.
You should be able to accept whatever you dished out cos you set the standards first, you canât eat your cake and have it.
As a woman I am extremely aware that the reason I have my rights is because a woman somewhere got up, got MOUTHY, organised, raged, made herself INCREDIBLY inconvenient until things changed for the better for all of us. Which is precisely why I see women who uphold the patriarchy as traitors to all women.