im unfortunately not good at pretending arbitrary rules and silly jobs that do nothing but re-inspire capitalism are important. i have friends who are really good at this, and part of it is they enjoy the concept of work or winning or results, idk. i just can’t
Ngl, adult friendships require grace. People are very busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self care just like you. Less communication isn’t less love. Check in not out.
to my trans and nonbinary friends, and the community at large, i am so fucking sorry. know that you will always be safe with me and valid to me, and i will keep fighting beside you until you can live your life freely and happily, without fear, whatever that looks like to YOU. i love you so much.