Punya teman akrab yang tidak shalih itu fungsinya apa ya buat akhiratmu?
Saat sendiri saja hati kita lemah lho, jangan bebankan hati itu dengan berada di lingkungan yang buruk, iman ini harus diperkuat bukan dibiarkan terkikis seperti itu.
If someone praises you for something you do not possess, do not trust that they will refrain from criticizing you for something you did not do. For the tongue that sells you praise you do not deserve will also sell you blame you have not committed. So do not be inflated by the exaggerated praise of the insincere, nor broken by the ignorant criticism of the foolish, and be the one who knows himself better than all people.
Imam Al-Shafiʿi رحمه الله said:
"Do not live in a land in which there is neither a scholar to inform you about your religion, nor a doctor to tell you about your body."
[Manaqib Al-Shafiʿi 2/115]
Men need to understand that ghayrah should not be limited merely to a female mahram’s hijab or presence, but should also be an intense protectiveness over her heart, her grief, fluctuations of emotions, her fragility. True ghayrah over her very soul, shielding it from harm.