Correct! It’s all about control, and trying to prove to themselves that they “got it like that”. Whole time they are losers, posing and being dishonest.
Wanted something pretty bad and I went and got it for myself. Grateful to every woman who came before me that fought for me to have my own autonomy. I do not take it for granted. I love being a modern woman.
A lot of men don’t want to pay for shit, barely want to work, don’t want to go to the gym, don’t want to clean or even be decent ppl. But expect women to pursue them and want to deal with them. It’s crazy to see.
I love having these conversations, bc it proves my point that most men don’t want to spend $$ or court women. “Fun” to them, is being laid up, screwing, you cooking for them, and playing house.
Or y’all can admit that you’re boring/lack interests lol. A man who’s a foodie will love restaurant dates, a sports fan loves sporting events, music lovers go to concerts or jazz bars, artsy types have museums, competitive folks love a good arcade or bowling date 🤷🏾♀️
Just last week… men were saying that social media made women want movie dates, flowers and walks thru the parks. Now… dates are only for women.
Now men don’t enjoy dates, bc they plan the dates, that center women.. and not both ppl. Ok.
@prollyhighaf It's more like the sorts of things I would like to go out and do aren't things you could reliably structure as a date (hobby stuff) or have recently been labelled bad date ideas (live music, cinema) then you have to just take into account it's still a job interview
This “dates are for women” conversation is actually very interesting. I ignored it bc I thought it was just another gender war, but it’s actually a lil sad that men don’t have little outings that make them happy. I LOVE a museum and dinner date bc I LOVE dinner & museums
@Sasha_sofierce Social media’s made a lot of people realise the game is cooked becshsd they have to put a lot of efforts and ressources to get to a point while another dude can have it all for free without moving from his chair, that’s what causing all the trouble
I’ve lived in NYC my whole life. There have always been people who moved here, always been crowds/lines*, whatever, but this new wave is different. It feels like transplants are the majority and the city is catered to them and tourists, EXCLUSIVELY. That’s an issue.
I get so tired of men trying to argue with me and being bitchy about dating.
Get your $$ up, STOP dating, or date the women in your tax bracket. It’s SIMPLE.
@Sasha_sofierce@designerodg Sure. This literally wouldnt be a conversation if men and women both spent money on dating. And the fact women are pretending that they are equal contributors is insane. Even if YOU do it you know damn well it isnt a woman thing. We cant even have honest discussions anymore lol